Money- The guys will generally pay for everything, ranging not only from your dinner, but train tickets, locker tickets, shopping at the supermarket, little presents etc.For Chinese men it’s very important to be able to provide for their partner, and generally have a DATE TO MARRY culture.I mean I can’t even be bothered to give actual more examples of how Asian men are pretty much shunned in every single movie there is.You can observe for yourself, next movie you watch with some asian guys, check out the messages they are sending out to people.This can be due to the man’s inferiority complex, societal pressure, or pressure from family to list a few.In fact, one of the reasons my relationship broke was due to the reason of difference in social background. You deserve a better man.” is a typical comment made, of course sometimes a cop out, but also quite likely genuine belief from a partner who breaks up due to the (lack) ability to provide financially all together or at the same standard as the female.
None of the things I am saying unless I explicitly say so are things that I am encouraging or not. In addition, I found that my boyfriend thought very quickly about marriage.When he asked me why i didn’t buy anything, I said I didn’t like anything.He commented that this was very good, and seemed impressed with my spending habits.This is what people think, since not many people even mix outside of their own culture to find out what the truth really is anyway.With this being said, I will try to calm down a little and talk about my own experience. It was unexpected and I myself never imagined I might end up falling for a Chinese man, not because of what I saw or heard, it just didn’t cross my mind.