A major fear is being lied to deceived which brings me to the main question of this article: Why do men lie? I’m talking about human nature – no one gender is more or less habitually a “liar”. He has been knowing this woman for 30 years in Atlanta where he lived 6 years. We denigrating for six friend of his who is a nurse . My boyfriend of 4yrs always lies to me about meeting one of his mates who tried to split us up in the past. Since we got serious his mate walked out of his life for over a yeaand half and has recently turned up and since then my boyfriend had met him and lied about and then when I fiuns out made out it was my fault he hadnt told me. I just want to know why this friend lie to me in the first place. So if the game ended at 9, and he drove 20 min to a screening, and then wasn’t at a bar near his house an hour later … The other day, he picked me up and we went to his house.OK, now I want to step back because I can imagine that my points may have enraged certain readers, who are ready to comment with things like, “Why should we have to reward his dumb ass for not lying? You know all sorts of women who lie to their female friends on occasion… To call up one common scenario, think dating, dishonesty, how to know if a guy is being dishonest, how to know if a guy is being honest, how to know if a man is lying, love, lying, male behavior, Relationships, why don't men tell the truth, why men lie I think this advise could be potentially dangerous in that it might convince women to ignore bad feelings they have and tell themselves “he just didn’t want to hurt my feelings.” There are a heck of a lot of men out there who are pathological liars, are married and are committing love fraud. He came to Birmingham to take care of his aunt she died last oct. We’ve just bought house abroad and ive just found out my boyfriend arranged to meet him while he was abroad working on the house and didnt tell me. I’ve dated a pathalogical liar – and while looking back some of the lies are hilarious, it truly scares me that some people are so insecure that they’ll lie about insignificant things like: I have 2 puppies, I lived with my ex gf, Judd Apatow is my mentor and his wife Leslie Mann is at this bar with me………. He was hungry and ordered pizza, while I just watched tv (in my own world).You stop enjoying the relationship for what it is and start craving validation and confirmation that it’s “the real deal.” And there’s only one thing that manifests from that place… QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?These days, people are quick to throw the concept of neediness around without actually looking at what it is.So this is my point to anyone on both sides of this conversation! If you need to lie your hiding something or you need to get out before it gets to the abuse Don’t overlook the facts. You must love yourself and look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are the same? Know the difference, the lesson repeats itself until you learn it.Men and woman that physically and mentally abuse their spouse and as their doing it and say it’s their fault for them hitting them or verbally abusing them, This is the same thing these men are using lies and then turning it around it around on us and telling us it’s our fault the reasoning why their lying to us! I was married 28 years to a man who lied, thank the lord above for my blessings after my divorce or I would be homeless due to his lies and wickedness. He constantly lies about where he is, doesn’t answer my texts or calls.The other woman told me that he is only with me because she will not see him.I’ve been going through this with my husband over the past few years ( at least few years that I know of) and the main thing that I’m more frustrated with than anything is when he turns it around that it’s my fault that he’s lying to me! God gave you intuition, pay attention to the gut feeling, There is no trust. Don’t feed into the false belief that he will change.
You are lying because you are doing something you should not be doing.But how does he think that’s possible when I’ve caught him textn another woman, hiding his phone from me, telling me it’s his sister he’s textn when I can see the number and it’s not her.Lies are the worst thing you can do to another person when you are in a relationship. how about the fact that you started acting strange like not replying to text or answering your phone.I dont want to leave him, but he is pushing me away and I will eventually have to walk away. I found out that he was dating another young lady and myself for 2 years at the same time. I went back yo him because of the strong feelings I have for him.But he continues to lie to me and tells me it’s me he wants but he is constantly texting the other lady and telling her he really misses her and wants to be with her.