You’ve got to show her that you’re comfortable getting sexual.
Touch demonstrates that you’re comfortable becoming more intimate with her.
Certain words and phrases (something being hard, getting wet, etc) lend themselves to sexual innuendo rather easily.
The more you look for those words and phrases that could be taken sexually, the easier it is to find and use them.
Step 3: Touching As great as sexual dialogue and projection are, at a certain point you’ve got to actually do something about it.
When you’re comfortable being sexual, it allows her to be comfortable with it as well.If you’re uncomfortable being sexual around a girl, she’ll be uncomfortable being sexual around you.When it comes to projecting sexuality, the most important thing is that you’re comfortable in your own sexuality.From there you can gradually begin to touch her in areas that are a bit more personal.Put your hand on her upper back and shoulder and start to let it rest for a few moments before taking it away.